Adopt these five
rules to make sure the stress of starting up doesn't get you down.
Gurbaksh Chahal, the chairman and CEO at RadiumOne,
says being financially successful is one thing, and being happy is quite
another. "As an entrepreneur, I've been fortunate to see financial success
but that has little connection to genuine happiness," he writes in a post
onLinkedIn.
He says entrepreneurs need
to cultivate happiness by getting out of business mode and balancing their
daily lives. "Let passion dictate the 86,400 seconds you share with the
world each day," he urges.
Below,
read a few rules for happiness Chahal says he lives by.
Unplug.
Starting your own business means that you have to be
constantly connected to your smartphone and laptop--hoping that email comes
through from a venture capitalist, waiting for an answer from your partner. But
the "wired world" is just as important as your "real
world," Chahal writes. "Set aside the phone and the laptop and carve
out quality time with the people that really matter to you. At the end of the
day, they are the only definition of what's real," he writes. "Time
is actually our greatest virtue. Cherish each of these real moments."
Continue
your education.
Many entrepreneurs, including Chahal, dropped out of
high school and ditched college to pursue their dream, but that doesn't mean
they stopped learning. Education is a life-long process. "Feeding the
brain is a strong component to happiness. Never relax or rest on your laurels;
always look for ways to give more than what's expected from you," he
writes. "Challenge yourself. Open your mind and keep it open."
Don't
over-think it.
You are never going to have all the answers, no matter
how hard you think, how many dinners with the family you miss. The key, Chahal
says, is to not over-think things. "The answers will come to you when you
least expect them. Trust your gut. We are complicated creatures. That
inexplicable feeling you get sometimes-well, it tends to be right fairly
often," he writes. "Try not to overanalyze it. Some mysterious Inner
You is trying to help out by pointing you in the right direction."
Make
peace with the past.
Being an entrepreneur means you make a lot of
mistakes. Whatever you do, don't let the past "disturb your present,"
Chahal writes. "Forward movement is the key. You will have bad days, and
more than your fair share of failures," he says. "But, it's really
about getting back on your feet, dusting yourself off, and getting on with this
business of living."
Forgive.
Just as you forgive yourself for past mistakes, you
have to forgive those around you. Do not subscribe to the notion of revenge.
"Most people believe in revenge, but I've realized that's just negative
energy that precludes happiness," Chahal writes. "We all run into
people in our lives that test us, use us, hurt us or even disappoint us, but
revenge doesn't serve a purpose."
WILL
YAKOWICZ is a reporter at Inc. magazine. He
has covered business, crime and politics at Patch.com, and his work has been
published in Tablet Magazine and The Brooklyn Paper. He lives in Brooklyn, New
York.
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