It has been almost a month
without even visiting our blog. The schedule has been tight but now when I look
back, nothing productive have I done. This is how our life goes. We think we
are busy all day but at the end of the day, nothing credible would have been achieved.
We are growing old every
second and we waste every second without doing anything good for self or for
others. Many such seconds in a day will sum up to minutes, hours, days and by
the time we realize, so many years would have been already wasted. Sometimes I
feel I have wasted all those 16 years of education, learning something and now
land up doing entirely a different thing. By saying this I don't mean to be
disloyal. But when I look at it from a different angle, education is not only
about the subject knowledge, I have learnt a lot more than that, so its in fact
not a waste.
I don't know what is wrong
with me. I wanted to do something but the moment the time comes for me to go
about it, I am not able to do it. I think of many things in life, many dreams
and aspirations, but all these remain as a dream. I have been dreaming so high
in life but always land up in the middle, the best part of it is, never let me
down to the bottom. So I have learnt that, to hit the bulls-eye from a distant,
we can’t hit it if we aim for it but we can if we aim little above the
bulls-eye.
We people have been pampered
so much by spoon feeding. If we are left alone, we are lost. From kindergarten
till the degree level, we are being fed with spoon. So later once we are in
job, lucky for those who have seniors and bosses who guide them well, others
have to suffer on their own. They have to learn by doing on trial and error
basis. And that is what I have been doing. Learn by doing and that in fact is a
good thing I observed in those people because they earn the wisdom themselves
and such skills will never be gone from them.
In life we encounter many
things. Thinking positive and being positive always get rewarded at the end. No
possessiveness, of course in love we tend to become more possessive, that shows
your true love but if people don't understand your possessiveness, it turns
bad. No egoism, we can have peace life, by being small, we will never become
small. There is no problem for pretending not to know when you know but many problems
arises if you pretend to know everything when you know nothing. Be who you are
and never try to show who you are not. There will be peace in your mind. What
hurts you will hurt others too. What you love will be loved by others.
Therefore we have to understand each other. If you don't like being hated,
never hate others. This is a simple Buddha teaching, help others to help
yourself. Pray for other's well-being and you will live well. These are what I
have learnt in life.
Have a happy life ahead.
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