The Love and Affection

I just got up and after having freshened up I got into kitchen to brew a cup of tea for myself. I live in second floor of a building and just a meter or two behind is a wall which is at a level of my kitchen’s window. Whenever I prepare something inside kitchen, I always used to throw some food on top of that wall so that some animals like dogs and other small insects could feed on. I did this because once I saw a dog watching me expectantly while I was cooking. I fed him and since then I started keeping a share on that wall.

 This time it was different. I was brewing tea and when I looked out of window, I saw a mother dog and a puppy. Puppy was feeding on bones that I have thrown the previous day and mother dog was watching the puppy dog eat. The puppy looked healthy but a mother was like as if she hasn’t taken anything for long. I fed her with another slice of meat from my refrigerator; it was snatched from her mouth by that puppy. She did not refuse but gave it with her mouth watering a lot. I could not resist seeing this and gave her another. She took it but did not swallow. She kept in her mouth and walked away. I thought she might have it for herself peacefully moving away from her puppy. After a while a mother dog came and this time with another puppy. The meat that I fed her, she took it to that puppy after having made sure that the first puppy gets the food. Three of them were looking at me again and I knew it by their looks that they are asking for food. I threw another slice of meat (pork) and this time I made sure a mother eats. I gave them one each. Finally she could eat one.

I was taken aback by that action of a mother dog. Although she was hungry, she made sure that her puppies get the food first. I was thinking, will those puppies when they grow up, will they ever take care of their mother? Will they find her food when she can’t find for herself? Mother’s love is unconditional and nothing in this world can match with the love of a mother. That love and affection of mother is priceless. Please god; help all mothers on earth live happily and peacefully.                                                                                                                                                                                                                

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Daw Chu Nyipai Losar

Daw chu nyipai Losar (Daw-Month, Chunyi-12^th, Losar-new year/festival) is celebrated every year on the 1^st day of the 12^th Month of the Bhutanese calendar. It is celebrated especially by the people of eastern Bhutan. It is also referred to as Sharchokpai Losar which means the festival of the people of the east. This day is celebrated like any other festivals.

Everyone gets excited. People in the villages prepare way ahead for the day. Men get ready with their game plans for the day while women gather all the special items to be prepared for the day. In urban areas, all relatives get together and even friends and neighbors get together to celebrate the day. On the day, early in the morning, mom and dad prepares porridge and (Suja) butter tea for the breakfast. After having breakfast, men go out to play various kinds of games while women prepare lunch. After having prepared, women go to witness the match with lunch and drinks. They sing and dance and enjoy the day together. Some families especially in urban areas go out for a family picnic to some faraway places to celebrate the day.  

The day in Bhutan is a national holiday and it is termed as a "traditional day of offering". The history says that the day was in olden days a day people celebrate the harvest of the year and a day they offer a share of their harvest to their rulers and celebrate together. People especially in the east still celebrate the day to remember the hard work of their forefathers and also to keep alive the age old tradition of celebrating the harvest of the year. Usually by this day, people in the village will have harvested everything and are bit relaxed. So Chunyi pai Losar is a day they celebrate the fruit of their hard work that they have put in for the entire year.

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Cash in Trash

Waste has been a waste for many years and for many people in Bhutan until recently there came a technique to convert all waste to some useful components. In a green and clean country like Bhutan, waste management has been a challenging in every nook and corner of the country. Not only in urban places, even in sacred places in highland have the same problems been faced. Thimphu City alone produces about 25-30 Metric tons of waste a day which used to directly go to the only landfill site located some seven kilometers from the city.

With the increasing number of people migrating into urban areas, the problems have been increasing. With more and more people including the tourists visiting the sacred places located in some far flung areas too have been facing the same kind of problems. With more number of illiterates, the effect of improper dumping of waste everywhere was not understood. The government has been then trying to sensitize each and every people on the importance of environment conservation. Though it took quite a long time for the people to understand, in many parts of the country, people are now aware of the effects of such wastes being dumped everywhere. The people were made aware by the environment officials, health officials, and local leaders and also by their children who are educated. Despite creating such awareness through various media, the waste management is still a challenging for the concerned agencies.

Recently people learned to recycle most of the waste materials and do business out of it. Young and old started collecting and selling of all plastic bottles, glass bottles and metal pieces and made a profitable business out of it. All these recyclable materials are traded to neighboring countries to recycle. Other degradable wastes are also converted to organic fertilizers and are sold to farmers. Such initiatives have taken a waste management to next level. It has created a very lucrative business for the people and has also helped maintain clean environment. People often say “when some finds just a trash, someone find cash in trash”. This has reduced the amount of waste being driven to the landfill site.

Even after turning waste collections into a lucrative business, the problem was not completely solved. On one hand, people are trying to reduce waste but on other hand, some irresponsible people have been littering both knowingly and unknowingly. There is nothing much a government can do to make people not to litter other than educating through various media. There is also a penalty for defaulters but the problems remained the same. Unless the mind set of an individual has been changed, government can’t keep an eye at each and every individual, monitoring them. It is now high time that we as an individual have to be very responsible and develop sense of belonging. No one will ever litter their beautiful home but people never hesitate to litter outside. This world is our home and we should not litter our sweet home. Our mother earth is already facing so many challenges like climate change and desertification, all because of self-oriented anthropogenic activities. People may think, just by throwing a small sheet of paper would not make any difference, but it has to be remembered that even a big container can filled to the rim drop by drop. We have our deep respect for our parents who gave us this precious life, similarly we have to respect and love this Mother Earth who gives us everything and ask nothing form us. Therefore, we all have to see from the “cash in trash” point of view and help someone make a living out of it while helping our world live GREEN for all time to come.

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The Differences

In this world there are many kinds of people. Some people can’t even have a meal in a day while some people have a various choices in front. Some die of hunger and some are obese. Some can’t even earn a penny in a day while some can’t manage the spending in a day. Some do not get a chance to go to school and learn while some have a liberty to choose the best schools for education.  Some do not have a shelter to live in while others build buildings after building. Some do not get a drop of water to drink while some choose the best water out of many kinds. In some areas people die due to drought while some lost their lives to floods and tsunamis.  Some work and earn a bit while some do not work and earn more. Some do not even have shoes to wear while some goes in cars with fancy shoes on. And when some feels the pain of not having shoes others struggles in life with no feet.

Sometimes these feelings become my worst nightmares. It keeps me thinking…while all these differences? Our parents used to tell us that, what we are today are the clear reflections of what we have been doing in our past lives. That is what we call “Tshey Nga mai Lay” in our own term which literally means “the effect of the past lives”. The ones who have been doing all the good things in their entire lifetime in the past lives are the ones who are well off at present and vice-versa. It has been said by great saints: “to know what we have been doing in our past lives, we have to see our present life and to know what we will be in our next life; we have to look at the things we do at present”.

A feeling of contentment is a source of all happiness. If we cannot think enough is enough, it does not bring any happiness in one’s life. That is when people often crave for many things that they don’t have. People go for wants and not for needs. If we have the basic needs, that should be enough in life. In some parts of the world, people don’t get a meal a day and no clothes to put on and house to live in. Looking at their conditions, people who have the basic needs have to be contented. Some billionaires and millionaires often make a huge donation for the benefits of others who do not have the basic needs. These activities of them are really appreciative and it is one good human instinct that causes happiness in self and others.  If we have it all for ourselves, it gives happiness for self but if we share what we have, it gives happiness for others that in turn doubles our happiness.

The world would be a happy place if we share our happiness. It is in our hands to make no differences among the people sharing the same world. If those billions spent on wars and ammunition by the world could be used for helping those who are in need of, it could have made the world happier than it is today. War is destruction and peace is happiness. The world is no place for war. 

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Way forward to the fatherhood

My mobile phone beeps its alarm in the silent lighted room while the darkness still looms outside. I rummage under the pillow to reach mobile phone while my eyes are still blurred due to brief sleep last night. I can hardly open my eyes in the light that is kept lighted to ensure watchfulness on my baby for his safety while sleeping aside. I put off the alarm and look outside the window.  Below my home is the highway. There, I see dazzling lights from a  few plying vehicles but I see not even a single jogger running, it is too early for them, of course. 

It is not easy to wake up this early. I usually wake up only at 7:30 am, at which, when I look out of the window, I use to see some of the joggers returning to their homes after running. But of late, I have got to shoulder extra responsibility having become a father of a child. My wife gave birth to a son on the 1^st September, 2014. Since then, I have been spending sleepless nights, and, at the most, I get 4 hours to sleep. Worries intensify when the child cries at night which eventually deprives my sleep. This is how I spend my night. 

Besides sleepless night, my wife is still not recovered from the post-delivery sickness. Her duty of house chore is handed over to me. So, I wake up early in the morning to get these things done.

It’s only 4: 30 am when my mobile phone beeps its alarm. In this wee hour of the morning, I wash my face and tidy the rooms. Then, I prepare breakfast to be fed myself and wife. By that time, day light is already broken. I have to get ready to go to office. Before that, I wash all nappies of the child that have been piled up after its usage in the previous night. And I prepare lunch for my wife to readily feed herself in my absence. Getting these things done, I go to office.  

    

In the office, I don’t have peace. My mind keeps worrying. Will not my child fall sick when I m in office? How they would have eaten lunch? If my child is crying….that sort of bullshits… 

Back from the office, I again have to wash nappies that are used in the day. Then, I have to prepare dinner besides pampering my child when he cries. It’s very tiresome. And of course, at such time, a bottle of beer makes me feel better. 

The most awkward thing is, having to spend sleepless night when I am suffering from cough and cold. I really hate coughing incessantly at night which makes my neighbors awake like me.  

LIFE Teach us Many Things

It has been almost a month without even visiting our blog. The schedule has been tight but now when I look back, nothing productive have I done. This is how our life goes. We think we are busy all day but at the end of the day, nothing credible would have been achieved. 

We are growing old every second and we waste every second without doing anything good for self or for others. Many such seconds in a day will sum up to minutes, hours, days and by the time we realize, so many years would have been already wasted. Sometimes I feel I have wasted all those 16 years of education, learning something and now land up doing entirely a different thing. By saying this I don't mean to be disloyal. But when I look at it from a different angle, education is not only about the subject knowledge, I have learnt a lot more than that, so its in fact not a waste. 

I don't know what is wrong with me. I wanted to do something but the moment the time comes for me to go about it, I am not able to do it. I think of many things in life, many dreams and aspirations, but all these remain as a dream. I have been dreaming so high in life but always land up in the middle, the best part of it is, never let me down to the bottom. So I have learnt that, to hit the bulls-eye from a distant, we can’t hit it if we aim for it but we can if we aim little above the bulls-eye.  

We people have been pampered so much by spoon feeding. If we are left alone, we are lost. From kindergarten till the degree level, we are being fed with spoon. So later once we are in job, lucky for those who have seniors and bosses who guide them well, others have to suffer on their own. They have to learn by doing on trial and error basis. And that is what I have been doing. Learn by doing and that in fact is a good thing I observed in those people because they earn the wisdom themselves and such skills will never be gone from them. 

In life we encounter many things. Thinking positive and being positive always get rewarded at the end. No possessiveness, of course in love we tend to become more possessive, that shows your true love but if people don't understand your possessiveness, it turns bad. No egoism, we can have peace life, by being small, we will never become small. There is no problem for pretending not to know when you know but many problems arises if you pretend to know everything when you know nothing. Be who you are and never try to show who you are not. There will be peace in your mind. What hurts you will hurt others too. What you love will be loved by others. Therefore we have to understand each other. If you don't like being hated, never hate others. This is a simple Buddha teaching, help others to help yourself. Pray for other's well-being and you will live well. These are what I have learnt in life.  

Have a happy life ahead.  

Royal Bhutan Police Day

The Royal Bhutan Police was established with personnel reassigned from the army on September 1, 1965, a day thereafter marked as Police Day throughout Bhutan. Starting with only a few hundred personnel in 1965, by the late 1970s the force had more than 1,000 constables and officers.

Royal Bhutan Police have been very helpful in the society in maintaining peace and order. They have been working day and night for the benefit of country. Both man and woman join police force in order to serve Tsa Wa Sum with full dedication and loyalty. 

1st September every year is celebrated as Police Day in Bhutan in order to look back and appreciate the police jobs in Bhutan and also to re-dedicate themselves to serve the nation. We all know how important is the job of police in maintaining the law and order in the country. When many others are in a peaceful sleep, they take their turns to patrol in and around city and community to make sure that people are safe. 

Therefore on this day, we all would like to join our hands and cooperate with Royal Bhutan Police and make sure that their goal and objective of making a peace society to come true. It is one of the keys to achieve GNH.